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what other people think of me is none of my business // affirmations

what other people think of me is none of my business // affirmations

So let’s talk about…judgement! People judge all the time, we judge all the time, basically everyone is judging all the time and this is pretty horrible. So in the end it does not really matter what you do or what you don’t do, you will be judged - there is just no escaping it. Sometimes people judge in your favour but very often they don’t. I hate judgement and also I hate being judgemental. I am not saying that I’d never judge but I really try to limit judging as much as I possibly can. And yes, I am the worst judge when it comes to myself because here I am super duper judgemental which is of course not doing myself any favour at all. But here you can at least do something about it! Stop being your own worst judge! Be good to yourself and don’t judge yourself in a way you would not even dare to judge anyone else. Heh, hello inner devilish voice shut the fuck up ok!

OK now that we talked about how we as individuals judge ourselves let’t move over to the judgement of other people around us. They judge us no matter what we do and what we don’t do. I just had a case like that lately which as much as I hate admitting it really got me into this little horrible hole of depression for a few days, even though I know that this should not be like this, but it was a situation that reminded me of a very unfair situation that I experienced before (well not only once I guess that is why the wound was so deep) but truth is, other people will make up their mind about us and most of the time this has not even anything to do with us (even if we are self-conscious and aware of our actions and words), their judgement tells a lot more about them than about us. And this is something we should always remember before we start feeling miserable about ourselves for something that has not even closely anything to do with ourselves. People love you, people hate you and nothing of that ever has anything to do with you is another thing to always remember so to better understand what is actually going on here.

So, what other people think of me is none of my business - since I have no influence on that anyways. So I better just let go and instead focus on myself again and make sure to focus on being the best version I can ever be - for myself! To make sure that I choose love over fear, that I focus on high vibrations and energies and let go of anyone and anything lowering my vibrations and in consequence making me feel bad about myself.

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